Expert author, Carin Goldstein MFT of YourTango dot com discusses 3 ways in which a woman can – unintentionally – use nagging to destroy her marriage.
[DVAM] The 3 Types Of Nagging That DESTROY Your Marriage
If nothing or no one is ever good enough for you, consider the common denominator.
“You actually call this making the bed?! This is ridiculous. You need to do it the way I do it.”
“Will you turn the TV off already and help me get these wet, naked children out of the bath?!”
“Thanks for not giving me a kiss goodbye this morning… You know, it would be nice if you thought about me before leaving!”
Do any of the above comments sound familiar? Perhaps the above are something you are nagging your husband with on a daily basis? Are you feeling like a broken record as you continue to repeat yourself while he continues to quietly dismiss the sound (dare I say “the noise”?) of your nagging — only to leave you feeling more dismissed by than ever? If the answer is yes, then allow me to remind you this: It takes two to tango. That being said, part one of the issue is, yes, he’s either not doing things the same way as you or not listening to you.